Dee

What are best friends to you…or lets not talk about something wide yet,…what does a word friend means to you?

well, honestly, i don’t know what it means for me….sometimes i felt like i have a best friend, or maybe 2 or maybe 3, but sometimes i just don’t have the feeling or the soul like one who has a best friend…i sure have a lot of friends,…or should i say people i know….

I have 2 closed friends who are closed to me since we grew up, ever since we were in primary….we share a wide different principle and interest, none of us do the same thing,…and sometimes we just can’t get along with each other,…it’s always been 1 who is aginst 2….and vica versa…we don’t get along too much now, 1 of them even became an enemy if you must persist on details….and the other 1,..oh she is always busy with her husband to be,…hardly have time to spare,…we haven’t met for like 3 months alerady,…now can that be announced as best friends? maybe in the past time huh?

and next….i studied in singapore for my secondary school for about 3 1/2 years…i went there with a lot of friends,….there were 6 of them sharing the same big room in a dorm with a fierce guardian looking for us….if you are looking for details, you might want to watch those barracks movies during the war! that’s us!! we have to queue when it’s dinner time, bath time, and even watching television! oh no we can’t get to bring anything electronical besides walkman or discman or hairdryer….from 6 there were only 3 who are closed with me…..it’s not like we went everywhere the four of us…no…..but we did share a lot of things, and we fought too! against my guardian and some other girls in the dorms who used to be very annoying…well so….times past by, we move out from that dorm to another, we got separated the 4 of us, and then the 3 of us get united but the other one stayed with her families, but we do contacted each other, phone calls and stuffs, however we didnt get to see each other much….funny uh? but we are closed, until now,….we mailed, message…and sometimes chat….we are all in different countries now,…note it’s countries that’s different not only the cities….so its been ages that i haven’t seen them….can that also be called best friends?

after singapore, i went back to samarinda, for my high school, and down there we were grouped in 6 girls sometimes to 10 girls, but its the 6 of us who oftenly hang around….we were into deep sorrow and full of joys too…now we are all in different cities, some ore in same cities but i don’t think they met each other that much….and we didn’t really talk freqyuently…there are some that i havent been talking to for ages too….can that be called best friends?

after high school, i went to university and i joined an organization called AIESEC, taking part seriously in there having a lot of friends,…and mainly we were 4….1 guy and 3 girls….we shared a lot of things,…not all are in common..oh sometimes we quarell too….we shared a lot of moments going out of town with only little money, bringing ourselves into 1 and went around and getting wild but no troubles we are hiack on it!….anyway we are working with each other’s own business now,…we didnt get to see the 4 of us all that often…but the 3 of us contact regularly…not that all stuffs i told them in the first place,…i am not the person that really talk directly,…not all the time….most of the time?

besides them in university time, i have another groups too….5 of us,…2 of us are in the same group of that 4 above we were somehow connected with this group too.. we went out a lot but its too much rotten in there,…too much individualis or something,….well im not saying this aint the best group or what…i wont call us a solid group if thats the term for friends now…but thru all problems somehow we managed to still survive we gathered sometime,..without thinking of the problems among us,..we just let it go through….

whoa….some friends i have huh? well i still have a lot of friends outside of them, my housemates in AM5 and also AG 46, we shared a lot of treassury moments too…will tell you bout them in the next,….

this time i juz wanna tell you how much best friends varieted,,,….and do you guys know that on the 8th of june,…its a Best Friends Day!!!

send your friends an e-card, telling them how much you appreciate them for be or not to be a best friends, but for being there in your life,

www.123greetings.com

www.perfectgreetings.com

www.hallmark.com

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